Evangelical NKT Buddhist?

As I mentioned previously I work and have done for many years now with the elderly, in different locations. I have found in my experience over the years, that very few colleagues in my line of work are religious in any way, and certainly have little experience of Buddhism. My approach in my previous two jobs has been to begin work without announcing that I am a Buddhist, in fact without mentioning anything to anyone about my religion at all. I get on with my job quietly always remaining calm and patient. Then after one to two years at the earliest, when people have got to know me and my habits well and find them reliable, I then mention that I am a Kadampa Buddhist etc.. at this time colleagues then always seem to respond positively and naturally develop the regard that Buddhists are very calm and positive people

 Sometimes an opposite reaction seems to happen when starting a new job and folk know you are a devout Buddhist from the start. In this situation colleagues often seem to regard any calmness or patience as more pretence than something genuine. That you are just being like that because you are supposed to, as a Buddhist.